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You already know smoking is bad for you and that it can kill
you. What you may not know and believe is that quitting is the easy
part. You quit smoking dozens of times every day. Staying quit
without getting jittery, overeating or suffering from
withdrawal--that's the part most people need help with.
Understanding what causes the smoking habit will help you to quit
smoking and stay quit.
There are three prerequisites required
before you will quit smoking.
You must WANT TO QUIT SMOKING.
You must MAKE A DECISION TO QUIT SMOKING. Decision means,
"No matter how much it hurts, I'm going to quit smoking."
You must LEARN HOW TO STAY COMFORTABLE
WITHOUT SMOKING. Here's how to do that:
The cigarette addiction has three components. Two are
mental,
and one is physical.
Relaxation and Pleasure
The first component is that people smoke for
relaxation and pleasure.
This component makes up
about 45% of the smoking addiction. Here's how this
was programmed into
your mind.
When an infant cries, its parent picks it up and places
a bottle in its mouth. The bottle distracts the baby, it forgets about being cranky,
relaxes, and often falls
asleep after feeding.
Roughly 33 times each day, the baby wakes up
and cries. The parents put the bottle back in
the child's mouth, The baby is distracted, relaxes, and falls asleep. So the child's
"computer," the unconscious mind, is
programmed to associate relaxation and pleasure when something goes
into the mouth.
Today, as an adult, you wouldn't dare put a baby
bottle in your mouth to keep from being cranky. Instead, you relax
by smoking a cigarette.
HERE IS THE SECRET TO ELIMINATING STRESS RELATED
CIGARETTE CRAVINGS
To quit smoking without withdrawal or weight gain, when you
are smoking for pleasure and to relax, you need to replace smoking
with other behaviors that give you an identical pleasure and
relaxation. The behaviors
that you put in place of smoking must be based on the following:
1) The new behaviors should provide as much pleasure and relaxation
as smoking.
2) The new behaviors should be as easily accessible as cigarettes. In other words,
they must be behaviors that you can do anywhere, any time.
3) The new behaviors should be more consciously agreeable than are
cigarettes, for
helping you to relax and achieve pleasure.
You are probably
doubting that achieving this behavior change is possible. But there
is a simple solution:
Self-Hypnosis.
Most likely this isn't the kind of hypnosis that you are
imagining. Traditional post-hypnotic suggestions will
definitely NOT work for the majority of people! Most people despise
being
told what to do because our generation has grown up questioning
everything. If you hate it
when another person tells you what to do, hypnosis that uses
post-hypnotic
suggestions are simply NOT going to help you.
How to Relax -
Your First Lesson
There are numerous
ways to achieve relaxation and pleasure very quickly. Here is one
very effective way to do this.
First, think of the most beautiful sunset
that you've ever seen. If you
have trouble visualizing one be sure to watch the video above, where
you'll see a sunset.
If you are visualizing a sunset, don't imagine yourself or any other
person in the image. See the vivid colors of the sun and the sky. Feel the
beams of light on your face. Hear the quiet sounds and smells of
nature around you. Focus on that for thirty seconds.
If you did
the visualization properly, then your very
thoughts made you feel relaxed. The source of your feelings
is your thoughts. By mastering your thoughts, you can master your
feelings of stress and withdrawal.
The root of hypnosis is relaxation.
By practicing
self-hypnosis, you can reduce much of the stress that causes your oral cravings. Hypnosis is the alpha
state of brain wave activity. When
you visualized the sunset or watched it on the video, you were actually in the state of
self-hypnosis!
In Chapter Two of Stop Smoking The Easy Way we're going to discuss
the next two components
of a smoking addiction. One is conditioned response, the other is
physical addiction.